News -> INDReporter FRI, OCT 15 10:36AM by Walter Pierce

AOC, Family Tree, public officials team up against bullying

In the midst of a rash of widely publicized suicides by bullied teens, many of them gay and lesbian, Acadiana Open Channel and The Family Tree are joining forces to combat bullying through a series of public service announcements, a website, and through social media. The Bullying Stops With Me campaign is scheduled to launch within the next two weeks, beginning with PSAs on AOC and on a YouTube channel of the same name. A website, BullyStopsWithMe.com, is up (though still under construction), and the group also has a Facebook page.

On Tuesday, District 4 City-Parish Councilman Kenneth Boudreaux, his brother Gerald, who is Lafayette’s director of parks and recreation, and newly elected District 4 school board representative Tehmi Chassion filmed PSAs for the project. Each was bullied during adolescence.

“They all have stories that they want to tell of being bullied — Tehmi Chassion especially. He’s just basically out of college; his are rather fresh,” says project coordinator Stephen Handwerk, AOC’s board president. Handwerk’s company, Affordable Consulting, also works with Family Tree.

“Since I work with both AOC and the Family Tree, I thought they could play integral roles, if they talk with each other and figure out a program,” Handwerk says. “And that’s how we kind of came together, the three of us, not only with the emergency help — the crisis hotline and case managers — but from the community conversation side with AOC; both of these guys being uniquely suited, that’s the type of work they already do: parenting courses as well as counseling. I thought it would be the perfect match.”

Handwerk says he was motivated to begin the campaign after reading of the recent suicides across the country, as well as a brutal case of bullying in our own backyard at Youngsville Middle School.

“I think now in the past 30 days, if the media report was correct, we’ve had 16 suicides, teenagers committing suicide, and all directly related to bullying,” Handwerk says.

When the Bully Stops With Me website is operational, it will serve as resource center for families dealing with bullying, pointing them to counseling services and a 24/7 hotline. The Family Tree will also compile statistics on bullying in the area, produce reports and make recommendations to schools, and AOC will continue producing long- and short-form videos addressing the issue.

Adds Handwerk: “‘We’ve got to do something locally here before our kids feel that there’s no other choice but to take their own lives.”

The video below is from the Tuesday, Oct. 12 Fort Worth City Council meeting, during which District 9 Councilman Joel Burns delivers a moving plea for his community to aggressively address bullying.

 


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written by ragin_cajun , October 15, 2010 - 04:38 pm
I'm tearing up right now. I look like Charlie Melancon on C-SPAN right here at my desk.

But seriously, is this how we now address lawlessness in our society? Resource centers and counseling services? This is another symptom of the complete collapse of the greatest nation on earth. It completely misses the point, I'm sure it's publicly funded in all or part, and the issue it addresses is already handled by centuries of law and Western thought. But hey, it's all sappy and empathetic, so I'm sure you'll all want to flame me for saying anything bad about it--but I'm warning you, don't bully me!


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written by Stephen H , October 15, 2010 - 08:02 pm
ragin_cajun

Lawlessness? To my knowledge there are no laws against children bullying each other, short of physical violence - and then it is a "he said, he said" situation where the victim is threatened not to talk. Bullying is a huge and a growing problem and I am happy to be working with folks who "get that" and are working on finding a solution - because what we are doing now is clearly not working - not locally and not nationally.

We see this as a community problem, one that all folks could and should get involved in. We are in fact trying to raise money to fund this project, however contrary to your assertion, we have not gone and asked any governmental body for funding for this project. We hope that folks who feel strongly about this and want to help the children of our community will step up and help us try a different approach - an approach lead by experts in child psychology.

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written by ragin_cajun , October 16, 2010 - 01:01 am
A growing problem?
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written by Stephen H , October 16, 2010 - 01:56 pm
Yes, a growing problem. New estimates that have been published show that each day over 180,000 students stay home from school due to bullying - they simply can not face their aggressors. Dr. James Easton before he left the school system stated that the largest problem facing the Lafayette Public Schools was Bullying.

And just by reports from National Media - in the month of September more than 16 students committed suicide rather than face any more bullying. Those are just the ones that were reported.

Here in Lafayette - The Family Tree has noticed a large uptick in the number of calls they are getting seeking help with bullying and local news reports have also touched on this issue. Rather than wait around this large and growing group has decided that it is time to act - that this is a community issue that we should all be involved with finding a solution.

Some would have us believe that Bullying is "character building" that it "teaches kids how to cope with life" - The facts are that kids oftentimes do not have the social skills or the ability to navigate these situations. With more families struggling, both parents working as well as the advent of social media - we feel it is time we chip in to help.
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written by ragin_cajun , October 17, 2010 - 09:02 pm
Stephen

"Lawlessness?" Yes, lawlessness. KATC says that charges were brought against one of the children in the Youngsville incident referenced in this article.

Are you saying that Family Tree is totally private, receives no public funding at all? How about AOC?


Most importantly, what exactly do the counsellors intend to say to these children who are being bullyed? What kind of guidance will the resource center have for them?

And what kind of recommendations can schools in the area expect from your organization? What would your organization do if the schools ignore your recommendations?

And walter -- what does the Joel Burns video at the end of the article have to do with this? Are you implying that bullying here in Lafayette is actually persecution of homosexuals? Is there some other incident in our area that I'm not aware of? Because I saw no mention of sexual orientation in KATC's coverage of the Youngsville incidents.


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written by ragin_cajun , October 17, 2010 - 09:17 pm
One of the commenters at theadvertiser.com wrote this.

" 14-15 years old in an alternative program. i.e. trying to push them through the system."
http://www.theadvertiser.com/article/20101004/NEWS01/10040315/Bullying-issues-pervasive


Same problems are happening at Leonville Elementary--older kids several grades behind are being classified as "special needs" and mixed in with kids much younger then they are.

http://www.dailyworld.com/article/20100923/NEWS01/9230314/Leonville-addresses-school-bullying

that's not bullying. that's inept administration and poor policy at ppublic schools.
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written by Walter Pierce , October 18, 2010 - 03:02 am
ragin,
I'm saying that because we haven't immediate answers to all of your very persistent, parsimonious questions, everything should be defunded. We will live in compounds, mindful of but disconnected from our neighbors, and we will be suspicious of good intentions and empathic only when provided with sufficient proof.
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written by ragin_cajun , October 18, 2010 - 01:12 pm
Sorry Walter. didn't mean to get your hackles up with all the "parsimonious" questions. So let me pare it down to the two really important ones, and leave my criticism of your journalism style for another day.

what exactly do the counsellors intend to say to these children who are being bullyed? And what kind of recommendations can schools in the area expect from your organization?

Stephen says "We see this as a community problem, one that all folks could and should get involved in." I'm the community, and I've been invited by Stepehn to get involved. I'm trying to learn more about this issue and what is being done.

I think it's very sensible to "be suspicious of good intentions and empathic only when provided with sufficient proof." And I'm sure Family Tree can stand the light of day, so I look forward to hearing Stephen's answers to my questions.

I think they're worth hearing, Walter. Don't you?


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written by ragin_cajun , October 20, 2010 - 03:26 pm
Nothing. No answers?
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